Blog of Mr. Tweet

See the original article on our Blog Editor Corvida Raven’s personal blog SheGeeks.net. Be sure to follow @Corvida on Twitter!

Lots of Twitter guides around the web tell you what you should do on Twitter, or the tools you should use, but rarely explain how to do these things.  When joining Twitter, finding a "tweeting", or messaging, balance will be rocky at first. Don’t worry, that’s expected and we’ve all been through it. Don’t give up!

If you’re taking any of the thousands of tips available out there and you’re still not seeing good results, try tweaking your Twitter habits with this guide.

But I’m Doing What They Said!

The rules and tips for getting started on Twitter need better clarification. While the tips are right, they are being done wrong. Here are three of the most common tips that could use some clarification:

• Follow a lot of people
• Reply back to everyone
• "Tweet" a lot

Clarification On: Follow A Lot Of People

Following a lot of people does help you get more involved with Twitter. Isn’t that one of the primary reasons for using Twitter? Tip: Don’t do it all at one time. This is the worst advice to give a new Twitter user without any type of clarification on how to build followers in a way that doesn’t come off as spam.

When you first start using Twitter, you should build up your stream first. Send out about 20 messages that actually mean something. Talk about your interest, tweet a link to something cool that you read, or something you found out about today. This way, people can get a better feel for how beneficial you’d be to them if they followed you in return. After about 20+ messages, start following about 10 people. For every 20+ messages, follow 10 more people.

What’s the point? Ease your way into following a lot of people. DON’T follow a lot of people (30+) at one time. People find it easier to decide whether or not to follow someone back based on your stream of Twitter messages, also known as "tweets".

Clarification On: Reply Back To Everyone

Reconsider replying back to everyone when you first join Twitter. That isn’t how you should begin using Twitter. Would you really want to follow a new Twitter user that’s using Twitter like it’s AIM/MSN/Yahoo Messenger?

If you’re going to reply back to everyone, wait a few minutes before replying, especially for messages that don’t require an immediate response. Streams full of @ replies are a turn off to more established Twitter users that you may want to befriend. Mix up your tweets with replies, general tweets, and throw in some links every now and then.

Clarification On: "Tweet" A Lot

As a new Twitter user, it’s hard to find a balanced way to build up your stream. Unless you have a reason to tweet a lot, don’t! This is the quickest way to be classified as a spammer.

As you’re following/followers builds up, your twittering habits will naturally follow suit. Sending out 10-20 messages a day on Twitter is fine. It might be perfect for some of your followers. Keep these numbers in mind when you first join Twitter.

Find Your Tweeting Balance (Twalance?)

There are thousands of articles being written to help those that are just hopping on the Twitter bandwagon. Those that are new to Twitter will take them to heart and apply these suggestions as best as they can. Lately, some of them have been following me, but I’m hesitant to follow back.

I’m not the only person with these concerns and users may be wondering why they’re not being followed back. This article may have given you a clue. We hope these suggestions can help you improve your Twitter experience.

• What current Twitter tips would YOU clarify to your new followers?
• Recommend a tip to one of your new followers or someone new to Twitter in the comments or using the hashtag  #twitter101!

Take it easy this weekend!